books

dennis, wendy. hot and bothered, sex and love in the nineties. grey, john. men are from mars, women are from venus. rose kingma, daphne. coming apart, why relationships end and how to live through the ending of yours. rountree, cathleen. the heart of marriage, discovering the secrets of enduring love. simos, bertha g.. a time to grieve, loss as a universal human experience. trafford, abigail. crazy time: surviving divorce and building a new life vaughan, diane. uncoupling, turning points in intimate relationships. welwood, john. journey of the heart, intimate relationship and the path of love.

web sites

SWOON Dating, Mating, Relating. unGROOM'd, The men's perspective on engagement, marriage, and what follows. (very interesting, quick-read, no-bull articles...) angst page.well-written, direct essays for our times. if you've got here, you'll want to go there, too. OnlineJar.com is divorce support site for people under the age of 35, featuring message boards, statistics, and related links. generation X neologisms smitty's genX page Generation X culture; what it is, and how it affects, and will affect life as we know it. marriage by Roland H. Johnson III. this should be required reading for all generationX'ers thinking of marriage or newly in marriage. though, it's such a common-sense-but-needs-to-be-said writing that it'll likely bum out divorced generationX'ers. avoiding emotional divorce by Dr. John Lewis Lund. dean hughson's supportive the divorce page. pbs television's, in the mix Marguerite Kelly's Family Almanac USA Today; split opinions over avoiding divorce. creating love. though, a commercial site, some chapters are presented in full. who knows, you might even want the book... stuart the maniac's home page The Marion Foundation's program "Raising Today's Teens" with sections concerning effects of divorce and counsleing.

films

The Sadness of Sex, a poignant (iFilm.com) comedy about love; the cycle of passion, romance, laughter, and seemingly inevitable, heart wrenching break-up. the big picture naked in new york reality bites threesome two plus one

television

r el at iv it y the single guy

music

"the end of the innocence" - don henley "the heart of the matter" - don henley "advice for the young at heart" - tears for fears "all mixed up" - three eleven "a simple kind of life" - no doubt "don't speak" - no doubt "you're wonderful" - adam ant "somebody's cryin' " - chris isaak "inconsolable" - jonatha brook "foolish games" - jewel "you were meant for me" - jewel "cryin' " - joe satriani "miss you like deserts miss the rain" - "only happy when it rains" - garbage